If you align yourself with you true self, you will bring to you all that is there for you, no matter what it is it will come to you. If your not aligned with your true self, then wishing and wanting and praying visualizing for things that you want won't come because it has nothing to do with why your here, it will not come. let go of physical things and focus within on your true self, there you will find what you truly seek, even if you don't know it yet. Once your aligned with true self, all the things that are there to help you on your path will start to appear.