My thoughts do not define me, they are just flashes of the past based on what i was taught , learned experienced and believed. but they are not who I am. My mind and my thoughts have no understanding of how things will work out, it is beyond them. I let go of each situation so it can play out the way it is supposed to, without my interference. Any passing thoughts that enter my awareness, I simply acknowledge them and let them go. I am who I am and my thoughts will not change that.