I understand your fear, when you look in the mirror and look at your life, it is all you know. and to find out that it isn't who you truly are and you need to let go of who you think you are and step into the unknown can be scary, no frame of reference to look to, you need to trust that thing inside that they call the piece of god that you are, and follow it's guidance, and have faith that it will lead you to where you need to be, and help you see the truth in who you thought you were and the truth in who you truly are. Fear not, the unknown is not unknown when you get there, it is a memory of where you came from and where your going, Go in love and remember.