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Saturday, November 16, 2013
The way you respond
The way you respond
It doesn't matter what the situation is, you
still have to choose how to respond to it, No one can make you choose it is all
on you. This was a tough one for me, I have been impulsive most of my life, I
have bought things when I really didn't need them, and after, realizing I
needed the money for something else. I have responded with aggression and
hostility toward people because they did things that I deemed wrong, or they
were against me in some way. I have always reacted to things instead of taking
a moment to really look at the situation, it was all about me and no one else's
thoughts or feelings mattered. I was self-serving, Self-centered and
egotistical; if there was nothing in it for me I wasn't interested. Now you can
say that all my behaviors and attitudes and the way I responded to people and
things came from my upbringing, from the way I was raised by my family, and
friends, it would be true, but it was still my choice. No matter what I was
taught or how I was treated, it was still my choice in every situation which
way to respond or react. So I take full responsibility for my actions, No one
made me do anything, I always had a choice, As do you. So when you feel like
blaming something or someone for the way your life is, Stop and remember it was
you who made the choices in your life, No one else. I used to think the world
was against me, I blamed everybody and everything for my life sucking. But In
the end, it was all my choice, No matter what life threw at me, I still had to
choose how to respond.
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